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WTF? Seriously....BM is NUTS!!! She is Apparently telling the GAL that her and DH get along great.. WHAT???!!!

mrsparks's picture

So the GAL's asst. calls DH again yesterday about this so called "settlement conference" because DH wanted clarity on who exactly is the chair at this meeting, he told the asst. if it's BM- He will not be attending because she's known for her flip-floppy antics and psychotic manipulative games among other things..

It's part of the "control"game she plays- We figured that because all of her dirty laundry is going to be spread out on the floor in court, that she's trying to make some sort of plea before the case goes to trial in Sept. and DH is not interested in negotiating or compromising on anything, because there's nothing to discuss.

The GAL's asst. then tells DH, that BM told the guardian that her and DH are on good terms, and that they've already discussed a compromise and agreement.

[THIS CONVERSATION NEVER HAPPENED, I REPEAT, "NEVER"]

DH informed the asst. that he doesn't speak to BM whatsoever for any reason and that her compulsive lying is a sick twisted display of what he has been dealing with- He said to have the GAL call him and that he WILL NOT meet period -and that he would like the GAL to call him at her earliest convenience.

The asst. said she would call DH back in 1 hr and never did..

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mrsparks's picture

He's getting really frustrated and I don't want him to come off as being mean and nasty.. I just want to hear things from the GALs mouth and she is not calling us back!

Conflicted's picture

It seems to me bm is talking nice about dh to the GAL because she is trying to paint a picture where she tries so hard to get along with your dh and he just won't even try!! SEEEEE.... she even tried to schedule a settlement conference (in good faith of course) and your dh refuses to attend!! Poor, Poor bm.... this is what she has to put up with.... shes ALWAYS trying to get along but your dh just won't and this is only but one example....

This is how the mind of a twisted manipulator works.... I've gotten to know this mindset quite well and would watch your step.... her lies are intentional and shes trying to make dh look bad....

mrsparks's picture

A twisted manipulator with no feelings of guilt/remorse or anything else.. that is why it's so easy for her to spew these lies.. This way with all that she's done and is doing, she can try to make DH look bad by making it appear that he doesn't want to meet and come to a compromise with her.. which is as we all know a huge crock of SH*T!~

mrsparks's picture

The situation is so scattered and we don't know if the GAL has found out anything because she never calls us back, we're always talking to her asst. that doesn't know much about the case..
So frustrating!

Conflicted's picture

I remember those days well... GALs never seem to have time to call you back or keep you in the loop regarding your own case! Keep us up to date... I'm thinking about you!

mrsparks's picture

I really appreciate that..