I thought that my husband was over the whole sleeping with his daughter when she was 5, but recently she has been coming in our room at night telling him she is having nightmares. Instead of taking her back to her bed patting her on the head telling her it will be ok,and even staying with her till she falls asleep. No! He takes her to the guest bedroom where he gets in bed with her and they sleep the night in there. She is 11years old now, and I don't find this appropriate. I can't hardly say anything because I look like the evil stepmom.