I have been marriend to my best friend for almost 4 years. We were great friends for many many years prior to getting married. My husband has been divorced for almost 9 years, he was married for almost 6 years. He has two children(son 12 and daughter 11) I have a 14 year old boy. My son is with me full time and does not have any contact with his father and we do everyother week with my husbands children. His EX is now and always has been a complete nightmare.