When I was 19 I met a man at work. We hit it off and began dating. 2 weeks later I was pregnant. I had been taking my birth control but apparently that did not matter. The man, we will call him Bobby (all names have been changed), already had a son he was 1.5 at the time. we made it through dating and he was a good father to his son, we will call him Jason, when he had him on the weekends. I thought everything would be fine. After my son was born things changed.