OK, so here I go again. Complaining about my SS. He is 12 years old and is driving both me and my children crazy with his picking/bullying. I have tried to talk to him, but my wife feels that any time I say anything to him that I'm being too rough, and need to realize that he is just being himself, and that's the way he's always been. Well, that's because everybody has always favored him over any of the other children, and that also includes my SD, his sister, and the two youngest that my wife and I have together.