I really gotta read Stepmonster again! or let DH read it so he knows how I feel putting up with his crap and his @#$%& kids! (too bad DH doesn't like to read!)
I'm tired of being held responsible for his kids (SS 16 & SD 13), tired of having to drive them home all the time (paying gas from MY salary cause DH almost never puts gas)
I guess I'm just tired of having to put up with so much crap while DH is having guilty daddy syndrome and BM is always making up excuses why she can't drop/pick up her own damn kids, SD's always posting pics of herself on FB with half her boobs showing (she got BIG boobs just like her momma) She's 13 ! I told DH about it; he never said anything to SD about it.
SD asked me if she could bring a friend over; I said it's ok. What happens: when I had to go to a meeting that night SD asked me right before I had to leave if I could drop her friend at her house (DH was working; my dad would be babysitting while I went to the meeting) I told her no, 1: I don't have the time and 2: I told her so many times that if friends stay over they should check with their parents to come pick them up. When I came back from the meeting the friend was still there because her mom couldn't come to pick her up; she had to go to work.
I was furious !! had to bring the kid all the way to her house at 10 pm! As soon as I dropped her off I told SD she can not have any more friends come over since I my occupation is not taxi-driver! When I told my DH he kinda got mad saying that my biokids bring friends over and I bring them home too! Yes DH I do but only on days that I have to bring my BD to gymnastic class and her friend's house is on the same way to the class! I don't have to make a whole 45 minute detour to drop them off!
As for SS he's such a daddy's boy! when I asked him to help take out the trash he ran to daddy (he's 16!) telling him what I told him to do. DH told him not to worry he'll do it. I was so mad at DH! when I confronted him about his kids not doing sh*t around the house when they're here, every weekend and all vacations, he said i always pick on them! GRRRR! I told him he should step up and discipline them since I " have nothing to say ". He said I should see my own kids how they behave! It's not fair for the bio-kids to have to help clean the house and do chores while Skids are watching tv!
Aaaarghhh just had to vent!