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How did you all let your DH know that you won't take his any more crap because of his " guilty daddy" behaviour? (see my previous posts) I'm tired of having his disrespectful kids over for 3 out of 4 weeks of the month (having extra costs because of that!) and he still pays BM the fuyll CS. I feel as if i'm the babysitter for DH and BM's kids! I'd like to say something to DH to snap him out of it and realize what's going on.

so sick and tired of DH!

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I am really getting sooo fed up with DH! His kids are at my house every weekend/schoolvacay and now it happens that they just come in the weekend and stay the whole week! Last time SS stayed for almost 3 weeks at my house! That means 1 more mouth to feed for 3 whole weeks while SD was at BM. My issue is that his SS stayed here for 3 weeks and DH still pays BM the full amount of cs for both his kids. I told DH this has to change; we have so much extra costs with SS here (he eats so much!!) and BM still gets the whole cs! He won't hear of it!

Just have to vent! Sooo tired of all this crap!

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I really gotta read Stepmonster again! or let DH read it so he knows how I feel putting up with his crap and his @#$%& kids! (too bad DH doesn't like to read!)
I'm tired of being held responsible for his kids (SS 16 & SD 13), tired of having to drive them home all the time (paying gas from MY salary cause DH almost never puts gas)

Need advise: DH is giving his 16 yr old son alcohol? is he nuts?

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Hi there,
Having found this site really saved my sanity! I can relate to so many of you!
I have a DH, a BS (16), 2 BD (13 & 9) and in the weekends and all school vacations a SS (just turned 16) and a SD (13). My oldest biokids are from my previous relationship and with my DH I have our 9 year old daughter.