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SS nails painted

My stepson who is going to be 4 in June keeps showing up at our house with his nails painted. One week they were pink, the next time is was purple, then blue and now they are black. The mom (my DH ex) has 3 boys and I know she has always wanted a little girl but still...I personally find it odd but who am I to say anything? Does anyone else find it strange that she paints her sons nails all the time?? I have a 2 year old boy and I could never imagine sitting him down and painting his nails on a regular basis.

The L Word

Question stepparents...

Does Your SO still tell his ex-wife/ex-husband that they love them? And not as a oh I love you and want to be with you and make things work out between us again. But as a thank you for everything you do for our kids, "love ya" kinda thing? So in other words..not a meaningful "I love you" but a "luv" kind of love. Make sense at all? Lol.

SS Soccer Party

My SO is the coach of his 6 yr old son's soccer team. Biomom signed him up and found out that she could get her money back if my my SO coached (we didn't know this at the time, my SO and his ex were fighting at the time and he thought she was trying to be civil and that is why she asked him to coach - should've known she had some motive about it that benefited her - stupid us.) Regardless, she missed my SS very 1st game which is crazy to me cause I couldn't imagine missing my son or daughter's very 1st game to their very 1st sport they ever played.

Do you ever feel like DH takes advantage?

I have two kids 18 months apart. A 22 month old boy and 4 month old daughter with my SO. My SO also has 3 boys (3, 6 and a 10 yr old). So at times there is 5 kids at my house. The 10 ur old is highly autistic which makes things VERY HARD sometimes. Anyways, I feel that because I am a mom and obviously do mommy duties (cook, do all the laundry, hell I do all the cleaning - my SO has never washed a dish, touched a vacuum/broom, folded a pair of underwear. I don't think he even knows how to use the washing machine) he takes advantage of that when his kids are here.

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Need Advice...PLEASE

Okay, so I am going to make this as short and sweet as possible! I am a newbie! To basically motherhood in general. I have 2 biokids; BS1and a half and BD3months. The father of my kids aka my SO was my high school crush! I am now 30 and he is 32 so obviously we have known each other for quite some time. He has three other boys from his ex-wife. Two of them are his biosons (3 and 6) and the 10 year old he took on as his own as the biomom just got knocked up per a 1 night stand. He left his ex-wife for me two and a half years ago so obviously I'm not favored by her at all!

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