Text from BM to SO
I dont know how long it will take me to get these down or if I will give up eventually, but starting with the text we started taking photos of in June of this year I am going to try and get them on here. We are keeping the photos on a jump drive also.
Before now he hand wrote them all down in notebooks (which one of the sd's stole and gave to BM). Then finally my brain kicked in and we started the photos, 3 years too late but here they are, bad grammar and all. I will put my comments in () Oh and he never never replies, hasnt in over a year. No contact at all.
"Give her room and board in exhchange forbeing ur whore, cook, maid, babysitter, slave! What she couldn't keep track of them either?!: Something that simple that would have been fun for "just u and ur girls just DADDY and his girls bonding time alone without her interfering" u cant't do it can u ?!?? Cant just let it be u and ur kids bonding
Thu Jun 21, 4:25pm
"Shes done that since day one, taken u away from ur girls during ur parenting time to go bar hopping, telling u to come over n f'her once they were asleep ud leave them hone alone in the middle of the night to do so, to the point u left them alone on Christmas eve to be with her! (ok, when we lived separately he left them with their gma at his home when we went out on dates and on Cmas eve they were with BM who had invited him over that 1st year and he said no thanks) "At what point will u give a shit about ur kids and spend time with just them bonding?!?
Thur Jun 21, 4:30pm
"Yours kids wanna go n do this with u an Im the one left planning it for u an them n now Im left trying to fix this situation once again so that u an ur girls can enjoy some bonding time
Thur Jun 21, 4:33pm
"Be a dad who loves his girls wants to spend time with just them making memories that will last them a life time...All they see now is that the only time u ever do anything, anything fun Onebright is always there for the past 2 1.2 yrs youve crapped out on them and done nothing with just them."
Thu Jun 21, 4:37 pm
"You have always put other people 1st....Always.....Start putting the ones who should matter most 1st Daughter12 gave these tickets to you in ur car u put them in the console so either someone took them out of ur car so u couldnt do this with them because of her jealousy of u an ur girls or u lost them. find them an fix this. u know its funny nothing has happen to my cars or home since she moved into our family home with you... not 1 thing not one flat no ones broke in nothing bad gas happen since then....Ironic really..."
Thu Jun 21 4:42pm
FWD: " Hi Nutburger this is Jane Doe. My daughter gave your daughter12 the tickets in an envelope marked Ballteamname tickets. It was the last week of school. I wonder if daughter12 still has them in her backpack? " "She checked not there she was sure that she gave them to her dad but dad cant find them So is there anything else they can do to recover the tickets an still go? " "Yes. They will be at will call under SOlastname"
Jun 21 4:44pm
"I fixed it once again" (SO had already called an fixed everything before her first text about it.)
Jun 21 4:44
FWD: Hi Nutburger this is Jane Doe again. This is my cell phone if u need to call me . We will be in section 999.. "Thanks Ill give it to EXHubname he will be coming with the gurls
an may need help ;)"
Thu Jun 21, 4:47pm
Now what Onebright he cant get out of going and spending time with just his daughters! what will u pull now?!: and keep reading these cuase I dont care if u do! these are his daughters an I will always do whats best for them an it may not include u get use to it! thats life!
Thu Jun21, 4:53pm
Made sure u'll you'll have help with the girls as well so u wont have to freak out an worry...
Thu Jun21, 5:00pm
Twins play sat at 1230 championship game I do hope u as their father will actually show up for that one an daughter12 plays at 230 championship game again hope those games are important enuough for u to show up to or will u need to do something for the gf n her kid?!
Thu Jun 21,7:39pm
You know its funny u push daughter12 an when she acts out u punish her for the truth! what u an Onebright dont like the past an truth about the things youve done?!?? an to continue to do to not only the kids but me as well?!?
Thu Jun 21,10:12pm
"U do realize the game starts at 715?!?
Fri Jun 22, 6:49pm
Are u seriously gonna ruin a great time with u an ur gurls?!? Come on Please please!
Fri Jun 22, 6:50pm (running late due to sd12 not having her gear ready and she is texting BM a play by play)
BTW would be an awesome touch if in 9 mins u could remember an text daughter14 to wish her a happy birthday!
Fri Jun 22,11:52 pm
please text her an tell her happy birthday I said DAughter14 he will remember watch he'll text. she just came in an said see its midnite nothing please text her!
Sat Jun23 12:16am
Thank you! The twins came running in screaming that was the best time ever we got to stay up an play an daddy di this an daddy did that n it was just us an etc. they had a great time with you!
Sat Jun23 9:10am
You didnt even call or text Daughter14 a happy birthday?
Sat Jun 23 9:24pm
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Wow she is big on daughters
Wow she is big on daughters bonding, huh? tee hee.
I just think its funny how
I just think its funny how while he is at the game with SD12 and Stwins 8 she orders him to stop having fun and text SD14 at midnite :?
It never even occurs to her that he doesnt get or read her text til days later cuz she has his phone so filled up he has to empty it out to get new text LOL
She should have a shirt that says "I hate being bi polar, Its amazing!"
text her this : "please do
text her this : "please do not send me any more text messages. You are harrassing me." dont reply again and sue the woman for harrassment.
He has , she wont stop.
He has , she wont stop.
OMG onebright!!!!!! Just OMG!
OMG onebright!!!!!! Just OMG! You & I share the same BM!!!! DH's BM, who we fondly call Medusa, does this shit to him all the time! It's all about: your daughters can't even have a relationship with you because just tired is up your ass 24/7.
She has said it enough to both the SDs that the 15-yo now says the same thing.
DH never responds because that's all BM wants....she wants him to engage...it's her drug of choice, to get him to engage & then get him to fight with her.
Meanwhile, what's funny to me: I'm not up DH's ass 24/7...it's more like he's up my ass 24/7, or we're up each other's ass. Why would the man want to spend time with two ungrateful, self-absorbed bitchy daughters who merely want to bust his chops...just like their mother.
They are clueless that it's their own behavior that drives him away.
Hang in there and keep doing what you're doing: document, document, document!
Yeah, well SO has 5 of these
Yeah, well SO has 5 of these girls who are hearing this from their mom. And like you Im not up his butt. Hell, we rarely get to do much together except run a restaurant. And trust me thats not "date time" Usually if I am there he is at one of his kids events and if he is there I am at my kids events or home doing laundry or cleaning.
But yeah, he tried responding with a "please refrain from texting me" once or twice and he gets 20 more text about how the CO says they have to communicate. geeeeeeez
And the SGIRLS are horrid. Just horrid. I can see why, becuz of their mother, but all are old enuff to know how to be, they just choose not to.
Yes, ^^ this^^ and The 17 yo
Yes, this^^ and The 17 yo does the 'walk next to dad in public places and its almost as if she is trying to look like she is "with" him and the little ones are "theirs" :sick: