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Guilt

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I feel guilty over the way I behaved last time SS13 was at mine and DH's home. It is silly I know, but when he blatantly disobeyed our previously agreed upon rules (for the third time, the other two times I spoke to him about it and left it be) I sort of lost it. On top of the agitation I already had, DH made me out to be some kind of Nazi about the rules. I explained that this had been a repeated issue and that when I spoke to SS about the previous two infractions, he said he would not do it again, then did.

BM is ruining SS

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Hi all. I'm new here. I've been doing the step-mom thing for a little over eight years now. I've had my struggles, ups & downs, and bad days. Overall, it's been a learning experience to say the least. My DH is wonderful with his son (13). SS is a good kid in general. He is no more or less than any other kid that age. DH has always been very careful to not bash or be disrespectful to bio-mom, as have I. She, in general, is not someone I respect.