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Took a break
Took some time off from ST to focus on myself and my anxiety. Lots of hard work done and feel like I’m on the right track. More work to go but feeling better.
Not much going on in step life. I haven’t seen Puke since the end of January. Have heard very little about her from DH. Except for this past Friday evening DH just opened up the flood gates.
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DH's Confession
Last night DH says he's going to call Puke. He goes outside for less than 5 minutes and come back in with a look of a sad puppy.
He comes into the family room and sits on the couch with me then says it appears he's been put on the back burner. Ok, you have my attention. So I ask what he means. He says that when he calls Puke she is "busy" and can't talk or he can never get ahold of her. This is the day he knew would come.
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From My World
It's been a while since I've posted anything. Doing some creeping to keep up on what's going on in everyone's life. Not much really going on with me but here is what's going.
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DH's trip to see Puke
DH went to see Puke this weekend. I enjoyed my time alone.
When DH got home yesterday afternoon he seemed so happy to be home, saying he was happy to be back to his wife. He told me several times that although he was happy to see Puke, he missed me a lot.
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Drama Call From Puke
As told to me by DH...
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What's the point?
I finally had to ask DH when he was leaving next weekend to go see Puke and when he'd be back. He's leaving early Saturday morning which will get him there mid morning and start back Sunday around noon.
He doesn't know if Puke will stay overnight with him at the hotel or not. I doubt she will. Curious if she'll ask if a friend/BF can hang with them too as she has in the past.
I don't see the point of an 8 hour round trip drive for just a few hours with her. I was thinking he'd leaving Friday and come back Sunday night.
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WTH!!!
So DH just told me that his mom is giving him money to go see Puke. Seriously?! She told me he shouldn't and now she's financing the whole thing! He probably whined and pouted to mommy so she'd give him the money since I wouldn't. Now I know for sure where Puke gets it from.
Taking suggestions on what I should do that weekend.
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Just blogging about stuff
DH is still pushing back a bit on split finances. He wondered why I using my money for my dinner out one night. I told him that we are each responsible for our own meals when eating out. Then told him that the same is for clothing because he kept saying he needed new work shoes. He keeps saying he's trying to get used to it all. He tells me last night how much money he has left til next payday with a sad face. I didn't say anything but "yeah?".
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DH has been hit with reality
I gave DH his share of bills since we are getting paid this week. Now he is all down in the mouth because he won't have much money left. It wasn't an different when our finances were joint. We didn't have much left over but he didn't see that. I did. All of the sudden he's shocked by it and has to get used to having it all split? It's more like he has to get used to being an adult.
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Always BM...Never Puke
Let me preface this by saying I love my MIL and Puke is the only thing we don't always see eye to eye on.
DH and MIL both believe that BM is completely to blame for Puke not being nice to me. While I agree that BM has had her hand in this, I don't think Puke is completely innocent.
Puke is the one going back to BM and talking shi!t about me. Puke is the one making up shi!t about me to tell BM. Puke chooses not to treat me with respect. Puke blames me for everything. Puke started all the BS. But she is innocent? I think not.
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