Ok I know we aren't supposed to give them power, but my husbands ex is certifiable. I have never seen a bigger lunatic in my life. She is the ultimate victim and is teaching the kids that we are the villains. I am at my wits end- love my husband but the stress of all of this is impacting our marriage. He's always angry, stressed and anxious. I become the sounding board and you know after 8 years I just don't want to hear it anymore. I'm sick to death of it all- the courts don't care, it's like throwing good money after bad, and what is it all for?