Ok, so this is a long shot but I just needed to vent a bit. I dont know if anyone is in the same situation or not but any way, I have been with my DH for 8 years now and we have 2 children together. However, he is still "legally" married to the BM of his daughter. Every time I bring up the issue about when is he going to file for a legal divorce he seems to brush it off and ignores the topic and makes up excuses. His thing is "its just a piece of paper and Im with you and thats all that matters". I dont know how to explain to him that its more than just a "piece of paper".