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BM trying to convince SD14 that discipline is abuse

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Submitted by RayRay on Wed, 02/03/2016 - 2:39pm

I recently found messages on SD14 phone where BM (who only is allowed supervised visits) is telling SD that they will go to DHR and report the DH has abused her so she can live there and see her boyfriend. He took her phone away and made (sat her on bed by guiding her by the wrist and no there aren't any marks and he didn't hurt her in anyway) sit in the room and listen to him while he lectured her about said boyfriend (she isn't old enough to date and we don't let her yet). This is abuse according to BM. Funny we call it discipline.

How does BM's stupidity still surprise me?

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Submitted by RayRay on Tue, 01/26/2016 - 4:25pm

SO and her have court today (DHR). This is to have her start paying CS because she had yet to provide a single thing to the children in over 7 years. They get there and she tells the judge (DHR) she didn't even know why she was coming to court today. OMG. Really she can't even read anymore? Of course the judge decides to have this go back before the divorce judge because BM seems so utterly confused by all of it. Then we learn she has lost yet another job (3rd one this year).

New here. Glad I found this site!

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Submitted by RayRay on Wed, 12/09/2015 - 10:35am

I am SM to SD14 and SS7. DH is custodial parent and they live with us. I have been their mother figure for nearly two years now. BM gets supervised visits every other Sunday for a few hours.
I absolutely despise BM and that she is even remotely involved in my life. The mere mention of her makes my blood boil. When I first came into DH and skids life she had been almost absent for the previous five years. Going as long as an eight month stretch without seeing the kids. Also, she has NEVER provided any support assistance to DH for the kids.

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