I have mixed feelings about my step son he comes over to our house every other weekend and lives with his mom which moved an hour away a few years back. My step son is 9 years old and has ADHD he does not like to go outside or play sports he is very grouchy and a know it all type. when he comes to out house he plays on the computer for hours, he only comes down to eat or my husband will take things up to him. We have a family rule the kids can only eat in the kitchen but when his son is here the rules change.