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Living Separately

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Submitted by Reznov on Mon, 06/10/2013 - 11:58am

I am seriously considering DH and I living separately, just wondering if this arrangement has worked for anyone else?

I honestly don’t think our relationship would last if we lived apart but I don’t know what else to do at this point. I can not stand to live in the same house with DH and ss5 (we have him 50/50). I’m tired of DH constantly shitting on me and our DS1.5 to satisfy ss5 and BM’s every whim. I’m tired of being a second class citizen in my home…I’m just tired.

Any success stories with living apart?

How financially responsible are you for your Skids?

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Submitted by Reznov on Wed, 10/10/2012 - 7:20pm

I don’t feel like ss4 is my financial responsibility at all, but DH thinks differently.

Today DH and I were having a discussion about whether or not I’m financially responsible for ss4. I was surprised and confused when DH said that he feels I am ( :? ). How does he come to that conclusion?!

Is it possible to go back?

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Submitted by Reznov on Sat, 07/28/2012 - 11:53am

So I'm pretty much at a point where I have no desire to have a relationship with ss4. NONE. I don't like him, and I hate having him at my house. His behavior and the way he speaks to people has been unacceptable to me for a while now. When DH and I first began dating I made the mistake of trying to be super stepmom and do everything for ss4. Needless, to say I got wise and realized that my effort was pointless and now I don't do anything for him unless it's absolutely mandatory.