well i guess i could start from the beginning , the ex in this story had a raid where the children where in because of her boyfriend being apart of a murder crime and the children where never removed from her cusody 30 days later the oldest child of three he was 5 passed away in a car wreck because she decided to go joy riding with a unlicensed 15 yr old drive and didnt buckel down 2 of three children the youngest was 11 months old which he was in a car seat.