It has been a month since the SD made the video making fun of me on social media.   She has not been to our home since that discovery and she has not reached out to me to apologize.  My husband told her that until she was ready to acknowledge what she did was wrong-that she wasn't allowed to come down until she acknowledged this.  We have been on vacation without her and she didn't come because she refused to admit any wrongdoing.  She has stood her ground saying that it was justified, that I deserved it and there was nothing wrong with it.