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Pissed! Furious! that little thief!

sbplus3's picture

I asked my 11SS how much money he had in his wallet before he left our house for the week because his mom isn't working right now and she is not married, she simply collects her government unemployment check at the end of the month and that is it! She does not have $ to give him. I wanted to make sure he had a few bucks to get him through the week at school next week...He replied that he had $2.00 in his wallet. I told DH to check in with him about $ before he left with BM because I had to leave and go run an arrond...well I get home, and DH says he checked his wallet before he left and he had $35.00 in there!!!! I am missing $10.00 and who knows where he got the rest. I am so fed up with this kid's lying!!! & I really hate that now I have to put my belongings on lock down when he is here! ARGH!!!!!!!!! now, do i bring it up or not because I know he is going to lie about where he got it etc. I am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo tired of this. It is such a battle. Every day it is something new. help.

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Most Evil's picture

Hey, of course that is just ridiculous, but at least now you know. It is such a pain to go to my in-laws because you have to lock your purse in the car, from druggie BIL/SIL who live there.

Get a keyed lock for your bedroom door and keep your purse in there. So sorry honey.
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Selkie's picture

I feel for you. I have to lock up EVERYTHING when the skids are here. Sounds like you have your hands full with this kid.

sbplus3's picture

I hate it! Now on top of all the other BS I have to live like a prisioner in my own home! He better watch himself or I promise he will be off to boot camp the second he turns 12! DH is all for it, I guess we will just have to plan it for a week he is with us since BM will not approve. His dad already took him in to talk with a juvenile detective who tried to "scare him straight"..apparently that did nothing for him. SUCH BS

"To win one's joy through struggle is better than to yield to melancholy"- Andre Gide

ohnoyoudidnt's picture

Good luck, SS has been stealing from us for years.

"The second mouse always gets the cheese"

stepmom2one's picture

I would bring it up. Even if he lies to you he knows that you know. I won't be like, oh I know you took it! but let him know that it was gone and you are worried that someone is taking it.

Then put your purse somewhere he can't get to it. When he goes to steal more money he will realize.....

My SD10 takes things not money. But I always find it in her room, I just take it back and leave it on the counter. She knows I know what she was up to, then when she asks to go to a friends the answer is no. She asks why I say " you know why and don't even try to agrue about it" she never says another word--just goes to her room.