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Facebook Message from BM

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Submitted by scapegoat on Wed, 09/21/2011 - 11:06am

This is the first real interaction I had with BM. She sent me this Facebook message last summer. I requested for my FH to be my friend on FB, knowing that she was the one that had made it for him. I kinda knew she was the only one that even looked at his page, but I just thought it would be fun to see what would happen. This is what I received. I will post the response next. KEEP IN MIND...THEY WERE NOT MARRIED OR IN ANY KIND OF A RELATIONSHIP WHEN THIS WAS SENT TO ME!!!

Shortened version of my Story

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Submitted by scapegoat on Mon, 09/19/2011 - 11:24pm

I'm gonna just run through this real quick(not) so I can get on with posting whats going on in "the now"!

So, I started dating my FH & BM was a stage 5 cling-on. She was so far up his butt it woulda took major surgery(or me) to remove her. They lived separately, she got him to come back home for the kids, they hated each other, he bought his own house. We started dating & we kept me a secret from her. He always said he didn't think she would react positively to him dating. Boy, were we right!

You can call me Scapegoat......

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Submitted by scapegoat on Mon, 09/19/2011 - 12:34am

My name is Scapegoat, given to me by myself, not my mother.... I'm starting this a little late in the game, but in finding this, I feel like I finally found a place to vent & tell my story. So, I'm going to try to start from the beginning, it's long, so bare with me!! I met my BF, which I will refer to as my FH, even though we aren't engaged or anything yet, but we plan to soon! I am in my early 40's, FH is just a few years behind me. He has 3 children, 2 girls & 1 boy, ages 7, 9 & 11. I will refer to them as SD & SS's just to make it all easier.