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Shell8078's picture

K so DH emailed BM regarding the boys playing Baseball and letting her know the amount. and also letting her know what since she committed Medi-cal Fraud the boys no longer were covered to see the therpist with medi-cal and that we are getting them new medical coverage and now it is an out of pocket expense that we will be sending her a bill for half of each or these Items.

DUMB ASSES response was "I will not be paying for any extra activities and I will not be paying for anything medical or counseling" NEW FLASH the court order says you have too, you have no choice. but thank you for giving us proof in writing of your refusal it will come in handy should she want to drag this back to court....

Oh and this is classic, she said "The kids are not a paycheck" What paycheck, we haven't seen a dime of support so I don't know what she gets paid with but the last time I checked Hopes and dreams don't raise these kids, We do!

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Constantly_guilty's picture

OMG, we have the same BMs we're dealing with. We have full custody and an order in place that says she has to pay half of all daycare costs, activity costs, medical costs, clothing costs, etc. We have never asked for nor have we seen one dime.

She gets six weeks of visitation over the summer (she lives in another country so this is really her only time with SD) and last summer she was trying to tell us that she could really only do two weeks. Well that would mean that we would have to pay full time daycare costs for the other four weeks as well as hiring a sitter to stay with SD while we were on an adult vacation we had planned to celebrate our anniversary (the timing of which was picked specficially because SD was supposed to be with her mother).

So we told her that she would be responsible for covering all daycare and sitter costs that we incurred during her time if she failed to exercise her full six-week visitation. She told us she'd rather give up rights to visitation than pay us one dime. Charming!

Shell8078's picture

What is with these chicks... is it a middle life crisis and selfishness that makes them come off the Rockers??? You don't LIVE here you gave birth to a child you are responsible for half. Is that so hard to understand????

OH and all the emails come from her new Iphone...... I want one but I can't because it takes my income in addition to DH's income to raise these children.

Constantly_guilty's picture

No accountability. I know in my DH's exW case she actually thinks that she did us a FAVOR by sending SD to live with us full time because now DH doesn't have to pay her child support any more. Never mind that she does nothing to support the child that she pushed out.