Where do I start? Ok Wel I met my partner at the start of 2009 wen I was nearly 19 and him nearly 25, and we became bf and gf about August of 2009. Then in Feb 2010, we got married (Islamically, no weddings n cakes n dresses cos we r not really in2 that). Now I knew he had kids (2 boys which r now 5 and 6) and I had met them and didn't mind them at all. But wen my husbands ex found out that he was married, she started saying that she can't handle the kids, money ect (mind u my husband was giving her alot of money for child support).