At work we have two men who were completely blindsided - or so they say - by being served divorce papers. It seems here too some of the DHs are shocked when their significant other has a foot and a half out the door. I couldn't help but wonder why this is? I've had several girlfriends divorce - they all knew it coming, "been waiting for years". Do we as women communicate that poorly? Is that why some of us have trouble getting the changes we want in our homes?

So, yesterday was the lying about FB & yet another issue of lying today. We have taken electronics, grounded, etc. nothing seems to faze her. Seems we need to be creative. SD16 was given several jumpers (uniform style) & turtlenecks (it is cold here in Jan.). This is to be her clothing for the next three weeks. One day for each month of sneaking & one day each for the straight out lying. We are cold, heartless, unforgiving... waa waa waa, i kinda tuned it out. So, before either one of us has second thoughts... is it really that terrible ?!?!