I think our communication issues with BM is just that easy - we don't speak stupid.

Last week we dropped the SKids off at her house and FDH stopped to talk to her about the medical bill that she said she got.

back story - BM txt'ed a few weeks ago and said that she got a bill for SS4 that was $100 bucks. Then on switch day she told FDH not to worry about she just paid it because it was due. So something seemd odd and FDH called them place that she said the bill was from. They said that they had not sent any bills (they send them to both houses) because they were still waiting to hear from BM's insurance, the outstanding balance was $70.

FDH asked BM again who sent the bill and then tells her that he called them and what they said. She asked why they sent her a bill for $100? She insisted that it was from them and for SS4 but I am starting to wonder if it wasn't for something else, like her or her hubby. Who pays a bill with out seeing what it was for? OMG freaking moron! lol

So FDH didn't sit there and try to explain it to her, we just left it at that (I was listening from the car). We aren't paying her with out a copy of the bill (which she refuses to provide) and since the clinic says there wasn't a bill, we are going to go with that and leave BM to sort out the mess on her end. Explaining anything to her gives me a head ache.

She doesn't talk to me any more because the last time she came up with a stupid pointless plan, I told her it was the dumbest thing I had heard. I even broke it down to her on paper.

Oh and last week SS7 informed me that BM (and him) came up with a plan for me to buy this Game store in town that is for sale, because it would be so much fun if I had my own game shop. Yeah she is still trying to find me a job so I can't stay home with the kids :). I told SS7 that was a bad idea - they just opened a new Game Stop in town and that was probably why this was one for sale, it can't compete. And owning a game store doesn't mean that WE (he and I) would get to play video games all day.

Seriously that woman gives me a headache - I just can't seem to explain anything to her in a way that she understand it. FDH doesn't seem to have more better luck - before he meat me his way of dealing with her was just to let her do whatever stupid thing she wanted to and go with it. Now he speaks up if he involves money or the kids future/health/education. Other wise she can doe what she wants.

Her new thing is - we sent a toad and a tadpole to her house last weekend SO she said she was going to get us hamsters, FDH just said 'we have cats'. I told him to tell her that I want a lizard! FDH said no because we want a baby next year.