I seriously just want to celebrate!  I am confident I have cleaned up the last wall booger in my home.  SD18 moved out almost a year ago (don’t judge; I don’t clean the walls in the basement very often) and she had a terrible habit of flinging disgusting boogers onto the walls and floors of our home.  When we cleaned out her room after she left it was a booger den…so gross I made DH clean it up. 

There is dysfunction, trauma, abuse, and boatloads of crazy in my DH’s family.  For that reason, my DH and I have decided it’s not safe for our children to have a relationship with MIL.  There is a lot more to the story, but I don’t want to tell it all right now.  Just know that this decision was not taken lightly, and both of my SD’s therapists agree that MIL was dangerous to their mental health.  One of the therapists actually threatened to call protective services if the SD’s were left alone with MIL when they were minors.  This caused the domino effect of most of the rest of DH’s family

Like most people, we are currently shelter in place.