What I am grateful for in this site is that while ppl may bitch or whine about their situation (like me), the focus afterwards is always to help the person out of the situation instead of focusing on the negative parts or the things we can't change. I also came to realize that ST is not just a place to vent about being a sm or sd, but some ppl also share their real life experiences apart from that, which I love, because it is so diverse and comprehensive. I love ST and just wanted to thank everyone who makes it what it is.