I wanted to take a minute to thank everyone that gave advice on my last post. It is not that I want to have anything to do with BM, but it is that I realized how much I would be caring for these 5 children while they are here during their 6 week summer visit. It is you all that encouraged me to make the BM and BF care for these children and not me. If BF is not able to care for the children, due to work, then he is the one that needs to hire a babysitter for them. BF leaves works for 1:00 p.m. and comes home around 1:00 a.m.