Hi there, haven't posted much under this username, but have been on here before with another account (had to change because I didn't want my posts coming up under my email address). Anyway, I have a partner who has 4 kids from a previous marriage, 11, 14, 15 and 17. I get on amicably with them, don't really see myself as a stepmother to them as partners very hands on and BM lives about half hour away so their real mum is easily accessible. We have a son, 2 1/2 and one due in July together.