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The "I don't treat SKids 7 ANY different than SKid 10" (Language!!!!!!!!)

snoopyinoz's picture

Ok, so my SDs are 7 and 10 almost 11 DH keeps going on and on that he doesn't treat SD7 ANY different than he does the older one. I call BULLSHIT! Prime example. SD10 has been known to not do her chores. DH will litterally SCREAM at her over this. Take away priveladges, ect. Well, over the weekend SD7 didn't have her chores done, and what does DH do? Not a damn thing! He told her "do your chores" that was IT! no loss of "fun" things,no getting on her ass till they were done, N-O-T-H-I-N-G. My breaking point was last night. SD10 got mouthy, and DH ripped into her about it. Got in her face screaming at her. Not 15 minuets later, SD7 got mouthy, and DH looked at her and said "Stop" that was IT! I was PISSED to say the least. I called him on it. and his response was "I dont treat them any dfferent" What ever. I just SAW it happen!!!!!!! And then he tries to tell me that "BM BABIES SD7" so does your ass! Not getting onto her for things that you would tear into SD10 over. (Backtalking, not doing chores, that sort of thing) To me, this is just re-enforcing the whole "I'm the baby so I'm 'special'" Bullshit. Sorry, But I don't buy that. I AM the youngest of my siblings, and my parents didn't treat me ANY differently than my older siblings. I was held to the same expecations and rules as them (age approiate of course) But DH doesn't seem to "get it" Any ideas on how to get him to "see the light" so to speak?

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dodgegal05's picture

Record it with your phone and show him how he treats them differently. He can't deny something he can see, well he can, but id hope he wouldn't.

stepmomto3bioto1's picture

I totally agree. I recently started taping things with my phone. Ive had DH who treats SS10 as the golden child, differently then he treats SS8 & SS13. He is hard on them, but not hard on SS10. Ive never understood why, and I still dont get it as SS10 is our problem child. The other 3 kids dont cause the problems.

Well, I started putting this iphone DH just had to get me to good use!! Also worked swiftly when taking pics of ss10 sitting on DH like a baby, a big ivergrown baby. It has worked marvelously!!!

Sometimes a pic ir video IS worth a thousand words!!!!