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So god damned pissed off..my weekend is RUINED

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Fri, 11/11/2011 - 12:45pm

BM said she would be picking up SD from our house "when she woke up" tomorrow. She ALSO said she would be able to take SD to her sporting event Sunday, as she worked 6am until 1pm and the game doesn't start until 2pm. My DH just called me at work to tell me BM is not picking SD up from us until 2pm tomorrow, and she now has to work 11am until 5pm on Sunday so she will not be able to get SD to game. THEREFORE she will be dropping SD off to us on her way to work Sunday morning, and won't be picking her back up until 5:30pm. BYE BYE weekend. Hopefully see you again next week.

BM makes me sick...literally

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Fri, 11/04/2011 - 9:56am

I despise that BM has the power to literally make me sick to my stomach. Just hearing her name gives me anxiety. I resent that I have to live my life with this constant anxiety over a piece of crap woman that calls herself a mother. I hate that she can control what goes on in my life just because she is my husbands child's BM. There is always that possibility that every decision we make as a family can be affected by DH's first family. It just pisses me off.

Teenagers scare me

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Wed, 11/02/2011 - 12:46pm

I am absolutely dreading the teenage years. It is bad enough to see them in public I can only imagine what it will be like when my SD is a teen. We went to a church fair last week and these young girls MAYBE 13-14 were wearing shorter shorts then I would ever even contemplate and I am 27. There were couples, gay and straight, making out and fondling each other in public. It is just sickening and scary what this world is coming to. My SD is a tomboy to the T so I'm not sure if this will become an issue with her.

Ridiculous

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Thu, 08/11/2011 - 9:52am

BM had SD on her first day of school yesterday. She went into work at 6pm-11pm and left SD with her roommates HUSBAND for the evening. My husband was NOT happy with this. He was never under the assumption that this man would be caring for SD, let alone putting her to bed on school nights. BM sees no problem with this whatsoever. She had no job for over a year and it is almost worse now that she is working because she works mostly late nights when she has SD on school nights! I hope this is just another nail in her coffin and more ammo for my husband in court in the next few months.

Beyond disgusted...I want to cry.

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Mon, 08/08/2011 - 5:06pm

I have never hated anyone in my life, but I truly hate BM. I am so sickened by her lack of regard for her own daughter. I am also sickened by the fact that if she were any other woman than my step daughters mother, I would have beaten her to a pulp by now. And I am not violent. BM was off work today, and instead of picking up her daughter she left her with the babysitter ALL DAY and her excuse "It was DH's turn to drive out to drop her off" SHE LIVES 15 minutes AWAY!!!! She wanted DH to drop SD off to her after he got off work, and by that time BM would have been at work until 11pm.

BM wants to meet DH at SD's school registration

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Tue, 08/02/2011 - 9:14am

BM called last night and demanded to know what time DH will be taking SD to her school registration because she wants to meet him there to make sure the school knows "who the REAL parents are" what a joke! Like she is ever involved anyways. It makes me uncomfortable to know they will be doing that together. They will look like such a happy family. GAG. I hate having to deal with feeling this way.

Why does my anxiety soar on skid days??

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Thu, 07/14/2011 - 9:35am

Whenever it is our day to get SD back, I get depressed and extremely anxious. Even sick to my stomach over it. It isn't that she is soooo bad. She is annoying at times because she wants to play with me and her Daddy 24/7 but other than that she really isn't a bad kid. Why do I always feel this way though???? UGH! And if the exchange involves seeing BM..forget about it.

Life Insurance Beneficiary

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Thu, 06/23/2011 - 8:51am

DH and I have been married a little over a month now. We each have life insurance policies provided for us through our employers. I have had my younger brother listed as beneficiary up until now. DH suggested I change it to him now that we are married. I was just thinking this morning...if I change my policy, will he change his policy to list me as his beneficiary? Or will he keep it as SD? I'm willing to bet he keeps it as his SD. Is this fair? What is everyone's thoughts? I don't know why I have never thought to ask him that question when the subject came up in the past.

BM refusing to sign agreement

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Thu, 06/02/2011 - 8:31am

After 7 months of draft after draft of a revised agreement, BM is now refusing to sign. She insists on new changes and DH is not having it. He told his lawyer he is not changing it again and he wants to go before the judge. I am so pissed off. Now we wait god knows how long to go to trial and who knows what the outcome will be!!! If he goes through with this and puts thousands more dollars we don't have into it and only gets joint custody I might just flip. We are already almost $6000 into this shit and it's gotten us no where!

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