My husband and I have been married 22 years now and he has a 51 year old son we have been supporting since we got married. My husband recently retired so we are now on a fixed income. My husband and I talked about it and decided it was definitely time to stop supporting him as we can no longer afford it. With that being said, he lost his house as we could not longer make his monthly payment. We still have our daughter in college so that is taking up a lot of our budget.