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My 2 weeks vacation from skids ends on the 4th day....

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Submitted by stepmomNM on Thu, 07/21/2011 - 11:14am

Well... The skids were supposed to spend 2 weeks with bm and guess what?? She could not stay sober long enough to care for them! We got a call from the state police to come get them cuz she was to drunk to care for them. I guess 2 stints in rehab was not enough. Ugh I wish she would get her sh*t together. Hopefully the judge will not order them to go back. I want a break but not if the skids are in danger.....Ugh :?

After 6 months they went for visitation! Whew!!

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Submitted by stepmomNM on Mon, 07/18/2011 - 11:13am

I have to say I am relieved the step monsters went to visit bm for 2 weeks! Was not sure it would really happen, but they are with her, for how long? We shall see. I am a bit irritated by the fact that she has not paid cs in several months and my ss called my dh from a hotel and told him all about how fancy it was and how they ordered room service. WTF??? She is sooo broke she can't pay cs but she can piss her money away on that??? Seriously room service? Even if I had alot of money I would not spend it on that over priced service! Anyway we shall see if she can handle the 2 weeks or not.

Why is it so diificult????

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Submitted by stepmomNM on Wed, 06/29/2011 - 10:36am

Why is it so difficult for my ss14 to lift the seat hit the hole and FLUSH! I am so sick of it! I asked Dh to talk to the boys about it. His answer.... Can you make a list of the problems you have with them??? Such an ass! I am the only female in the house of 5 with one bathroom. Think I might just start peeing on the seat too! What the hell???? }:)

Does anyone elses skids do this?

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Submitted by stepmomNM on Tue, 06/28/2011 - 11:44am

My Dh is such a push over. He never says no. :sick: The skids have been whispering questions in his ear instead of saying them out loud. Because they know if I don't hear the question he will say yes. And it's usually something he should say no to. Like: Can I have a soda? At 10:00 at night. My answer: no! His answer: Yes! I am the one who has to wash the pissed on sheets! I told my Dh last night that has got to stop! That is just another way for them to manipulate the both of us. He says he does not want them to feel like they can't come to him. I say BULLSHIT!

WTF????

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Submitted by stepmomNM on Wed, 04/13/2011 - 9:57am

DH has once again ignored the fact that ss13 is in trouble at school again. SS13 ignored instructions and was rude to the teacher. Not surprised! He does it to me without a word from DH! Why would it stop there. I think the kid hates women! I have been desengaging so I was not involved in "the talk" after the incident. But ss came out of his room and got on the computer?? No consequences as usual! DH is an idiot!! He will never learn. So sad.......

What do you think??

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Submitted by stepmomNM on Mon, 04/11/2011 - 3:51pm

I barely talk to ss13 unless nessecary. Yesterday he asked if he could borrow my webcam. I hide it cuz he just takes my stuff without asking. I told him no. He wants to hook it up to his game system and use it as a microphone. Of course he broke his headset. I told him it's not made for that and I don't want it to get broke cuz I use it to visit with my kids and grandbaby in another state. Needless to say he was pissed and rude all day. Last night we were watching TV. A commercial came on for that show The Good Wife.

He is such an azz!

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Submitted by stepmomNM on Thu, 04/07/2011 - 9:37am

2 days ago I asked my ss13 if he wanted to go get new shoes. I do continue to try... As usual he said NO. This morning he walks up to DH and says "Dad will you take me to get shoes today" I wanted to punch him in his face. What a brat! I am done!!! NEVER AGAIN!

I think I am going to lose it!

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Submitted by stepmomNM on Wed, 04/06/2011 - 4:42pm

This is my first blog...Probably the first of many, now that I have found this site. I am the divorced mother of 3 grown children. I have been married for 2 years to my DH who has his 3 boys FULL TIME. The BM has visitation but has been in and out of rehab so much that she has not spent very much time with them. When I first met my husband he was struggling to care for these boys. He was working full time and trying to run the household alone. I was crazy about him and wanted to help so I jumped in head first. It actually went really well at first.