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Needed to put off some steam..

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Okay so last night, DH and I take the SD and my two BD's to church. We decided while they were at church we would go have dinner. While we were dinner, he says I have something to tell you but you get upset so easy. So Im like Well what is it. He says "My brother called me today (his brother works for cell phone company and has DH on his plan) and Im due for an upgrade for a new phone and I told him to get *SD a new phone since your two girls have new phones" Well let me explain something.

The letter to BM

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Last night, I instructed all the children, my two BD and my SD that I wanted them to clean their rooms since I knew they wanted to attend a football game tonight and spend the night with friends or grandmas. While they were cleaning, I went through each of their school folders to look at grades. Well in my SD's daughter math folder was a note to her BM,,,it bascially read that she "couldnt stand living in our house. Her father has become over protective only because of me. That her father only listens to what I have to say. That I am not her mother and I will never be her mother.

SD daughter moves off to College

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Okay so my SD has moved off to College,,we bought her a 3 bedroom house and she now has 2 girls living with her. The college is not that far away from home, a little over a hour. The problem,,,now we have three girls at home,,my two BD's and one SD... my youngest BD got the smallest bedroom. we are talking about her room holds a twin bed and a small night stand. I have a plastic tub in the clostet to hold her undies, socks and stuff like that. Our house is 5 BD. So when she has a friend come over,, they have to pull out the hideaway in the living room so sleep comfortable.

After reading yours,, Here is mine

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The last three years of my life has been very difficult,, I married a man with two daughters, ages now 18 and 14. I also have two daughters, ages now 11 and 14. We have our girls full-time except for the oldest who just moved out to attend college. Prior to me entering his life, his mother spent a majority of time in their life helping him raise the girls,, their BM is bi-polar and is in and out of their lives. Since my marriage to him, his mother has interferred in our life either by telling my H or other family members how things with his girls should be maintained.

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