I have 3 skids from 2 different BM.. The oldest SS21 is a dream, we all get along great, he's in the military and visits when he can, lived with us back in HIgh school.. SS16 has autism, and has been a challenge from the start... SS14 is just like his mom. All we wanted was to try to have regular happy family times. Spend time together, share some laughs, memories... But be damned no matter what.. Once those boys went back to BM.. There were issues... Shed call, Ss16 feels left out, or SS14 never wants to cone over, he's uncomfortable..