I am new here and hoping to get some advice.  DH (60 yrs old) & I have been married for 3-1/2 years now.  His son was 22 when we met, still living at home, no job, no responsbilities, no life.  Doesn't drive, didn't go to college, didn't get his first job until 26 and thats a part time job hanging clothes up at a store.  He claims he's got anxiety, depression, etc...  He litteraly lives in his room, he eats in there, sleeps all day, except when he has to go to work, and then comes out 10 minutes before he's due in to shower and get a ride from my DH or his mom, since he still doens't dr