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I am absolutely happy

I got alot of feedback from my last blog about how pissed everyone would be if their name was still on the house, and I thought about how I don't even really like living in a house my DH bought with his ex sooo.. I talked to DH about it all and we put the house for sale in the paper and after a month of it being in there we are going to talk to a realitor and get the house sold asap!

o/t contempt of court?

I'm not sure if anyone has been through this buuut I thought I would ask. DH has not gotten XW off the house loan yet as we have not been in a position too, but we are working on that. She is taking him to court for it next week which is exhausting, it has been about a year since their divorce finalized. What should we expect from court, and should we worry about getting booted out of our house? The court order is very vauge as they did not do it with a lawyer, so it basically says DH will get the house obtained at this address ----.

hehe heres a laugh!

My Dh called to talk to his son today and that sent the ex off, instead of the usual things she says to get everyone worked up she is running out of material and just grasping at nothing. She told him I was calling him by his real name to other people (he uses his middle for most everything) and that I saying that we lived in a different state then we do. I mean I would expect her to say I was cheating on him or something but using his real name? That's totally scandelous :P.

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O/T loss of passion?

This feels kind of weird to talk about, but I really don't know what to do about it.. For the last few months I have completely lost my sex drive, and became alot less affectionate also. Has this happend to anyone? Do you know how to get it back? The idea of sex in genral just turns me off, I don't even like discussing it with my husband and as I don't want it to ruin my marriage it may go down that road. It's not like I'm just not attracted to my husband. I am literally not attracted to anyone. could it be medical?

Help? BM is majorly crossing the lines.

So things have just escalated and escalated. She tried filing an abuse complaint with DFS but that didn't work for her. Then my ex boyfriend (my son's bio father) suddenly found out my address out of no where, and I finally got it out of him that BM had sought him out. She had figured out who he was to me and obtained his phone number, then proceeded to text him multiple times telling him it was urgent and his son was in danger.

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update: back home

This year has been completely awful, but hopefully things will start looking up. I am now back home after a fairly long stay with family under a bunch of agreements and so far so good. We have been talking through things alot more, I have my car all of the time, we are going to church as a family, and we are a partnership. Finacially things could be better but we will work that out soon. Hopefully everything stays in place I really missed my house and being a family.

I'm leaving.

at least for a while. My dad is coming to pick me up later today and I'm going to stay with my parents for a while. I really really don't want to get a divorce, I really hope he straightens out.