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O/T potty training tips anyone?

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My 2 year old seems to be wanting to potty train, and being this is my first time and my mom doesnt have much advise I thought I would turn to other moms Smile I have made a sticker chart, and try putting him on the potty every twenty minutes but he still manages to wet his underwear (and doesn't really mind or tell me) He instigated potty training and decided he wanted to, he even picked his underwear out. I desperatly need ideas

Great news!

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It seems since I have gotten with DH we have had problem after problem with BM and having SS. She is now not allowed to call his phone unless SS is sick or there is an emergency situation, she is only allowed to email. Which mean I get my H back! There is no more crazy one o' clock in the morning phone calls or bar texts. We actually get to enjoy our time with SS and hopefully she is going to calm down the more DH puts his foot down. Lets just hope I am not celebrating too soon!

clothes? please help

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everytime we have the little guy, (which is only one weekend a month right now) BM sends and dresses him in 18 mo.clothes, that look like they have been very preworn and old, (some even have holes) he is 2 1/2 so obviously they don't fit him. We have no problem at all about buying clothes for him but having him once a month he grows out of most of them. DH and I are at ends wits with this, is there any way to stop her.

soo tired of dealing with this

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So we told BM that she needed to meet halfway or pay for half the gas.. She tried to say that she would just drop SS off at our house and "inspect" it to make sure it is safe for "her son". Mind you this is after she previously broke into the house, and called the cops after being at the in laws. Now she is mad and making him drive all the way down there to pick him up at the daycare GRRRR. I'm so tired of everytime we have his son it turning into a huge fight between them, and a monster of problems with her. Something has to give she is very impossible to deal with.

Drama to come

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SO finally got a job in town so we don't have to travel anymore.. only problem is BM will have to travel to meet us half way now (she doesn't know this yet) I have a feeling there is going to be alot of drama coming our way with this. Oh well I will just cross my fingers and hope I do not have the cops coming to my house now. Any suggestions on how to minimize drama in letting her know?

"welfare check"

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Last time we had SS, I was watching him at MIL and BM asked if she could come over and of course my SO said yes, because he always says yes not thinking of how unbearably akward it becomes for me. She (BM) came by glared at me the entire time without saying a word, spent a few seconds with SS and then left. Nothing more was said til about an hour later I was getting ready to take my BS out to lunch with my family while letting my SS spend some time with SO's family. As I get into my car a cop gets out of his car which is parked across the street.

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