SS11 has been telling BM he doesn't want to come over to DH house anymore. So DH goes and picks him up, to found out whats wrong. SS11 tells DH my BS14 is mean to him (they both pick on each other) and I called SS11 fat when he was eating pizza. I know for a fact I would NEVER, EVER say such a thing. DH said well maybe SS11 misunderstood! I said well I need to talk to him about this. DH said no, because he wont talk about whats wrong again. We will be having a family meeting with BS14,BS6,SS14 and SS11. The hard part is SS11 has high functional autism.