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husband doesn't think his kids what the "Original family" back together

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Submitted by tired and stressed on Thu, 01/16/2014 - 10:26am

I have had the conversation with my husband about his daughter wanting her dad and mom to get back together. I know in my head that will never happen, too much hurt with the 2 of them. It is the comments and pictures she shares with friends. They are not shy about calling themselves "The Original 3 or "O-3"." (my 3 skids). My DH and I have 2 kids. I told him about her posting a pix of the "original family" when they were kids with their BM & my husband. He says I am reading into it.

too many gifts

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Submitted by tired and stressed on Wed, 01/15/2014 - 9:40pm

My husband and I fight constantly about the amount of money he spends on the skids. SD19 told us she is going to Italy for a week for spring break, but I guess is able to get 2 credits for school. My husband had no idea about it until just recently. We were told that BM was giving her the trip as a xmas and bday gift. SD was given her full xmas gifts and then a few days before she leaves for school my husband is meeting her to pay for the other half of the trip. I did not say anything initially we had a trip.

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Submitted by tired and stressed on Sun, 01/12/2014 - 8:28am

I have been with my husband for 11 years, married for 9. I have a SD19, SS21, SS24 and 2 BS 6 & 3 years old. Initially when we started off, the kids and I got along. The custody was 50/50. There were issues, but it is nothing that I didn't expect. The BM would make sure the kids would sit with her when we were at activities, because they didn't want her to sit alone. BM left DH because her "soul mate" was going to divorce his wife. He chose to stay with his wife and 3 kids, so she was left alone.