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Court date pushed back again.....on our 1st Anniversary Date!
I got so made when I got the copy of the letter from the attorney I walked for almost an hour!
So...should I take this as a good omen??? or that my marriage is doomed!!
I am so tired of worrying about the money that is going out the door for this stupid case!!
Dh is tired of talking about it so that's why I am on here...I wonder how I have made it this far without drugs!!
the pot calling the kettle black........
BM is a plump person that had 3 kids and only 1 of the 2 isn't considered obese. That's how the custody issue started...DH doesn't take them to the doctor about their weight. Hmm...she doesn't see a doctor about her weight. She pushed the issue after years of feeding the kids junk food. My MIL has told me that she didn't cook (mind you I don't but at least try to cook something more than ramen noodles and hot dogs)
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Progress Reports came out and BM is grounding SS11 for 1 F
OK I know as a Mom that grades are important but BM isn't addressing the other issues he has.....F's in the homework grade for EVERY class. She left this drama voicemail that SS11 isn't going back to soccer until he improves his grade. My BD10 plays on the same team and there is only 11 players total.
Glad today is over....had a four way meeting with attornies and the ex
At least the meeting didn't talk too long. It was only a little over 1 hr. I guess the ex doesn't want to pay too much out of his pocket.
He was so nervous and basically said about 10 times the same thing....I love my kids and would do anything for them. blah blah blah
I have had them since Aug 08 full time and the mention of CS that is when he hires an attorney. I didn't have any stipulation in the original decree that I wasn't allowed to move.
This is why I vote BM mother of the year (not!)
she only dropped off SS11 one time and of course the GAL seemed to believe every word she said. Today is DH day and normally he gets dropped off at 6pm by the bioytch herself. I guess was special. SS11 called DH 2 hrs early to find out if he could be dropped off early. DH told him that he wasn't home. SS11 came over anyway. BM's loser husband (I wouldn't even count him as a step father he does nothing for any of the kids)
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DH had to tell the kids about Healthy Weight
BM is pushing the issue of SS14 and SS13 to loose weight. SS14 is involved in sports but SS13 is not.
BM has fed the kids carbs since they left the womb and wonder why they are fat! She hasn't cared about their weight until AFTER she filed for custody.
The kids have been at her house for 10 days for Spring Break. She fed them this week Romen noodles, hot dogs and pizza.
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GAL ....is believing EVERYTHING the BM is saying
DH met with the GAL and the bioytch today. DH said he felt like he was in an ambush. I told him that BM is very good at making herself look good and him look bad. The GAL actually asked him if he didn't like her....he actually stated yes. The GAL stated that he had to get over his issues with her.
The GAL wants to recommending to split the kids. SS14 with BM, SS13 with DH and the youngest one with ADHD SS11 split 1 week on 1 week off. When DH asked how is the good for him when he needs consistancy, the GAL stated then she could recommend him stay where he is(with BM)
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What would you think.........
if BM grounded SS11 for not taking his ADHD medication?
SS11 takes medication for BM's self diagnosis when he was 8 of ADHD. DH has joint custody and sees him every Tuesday. (the other 2 are with him) Whenever SS11 is dropped off and really hungry before we eat dinner we know that he hasn't had his "pill".
DH called BM about it and she said she didn't know if he took it or not she left it on the counter. She does go to work before the bus and there are 3 other adults in the house. DH is always making sure that he takes it on the mornings he is with him.
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If you were going thru a custody battle wouldn't you think you would want to be on your best behavior??
My BM is giving us the case! Little background...DH & BM have shared parenting and 2 live with us and 1 with her. BM taking DH back to court for modification because he is 'physically & psychologically" causing harm the 2 he has.
Ok...to answer my question....BM can not control herself and screw up.
So SS11 spent the night last Sunday and DH went and got his "new medication" for ADD. (the kid wasn't on medication while they were married and thru their separation but when the divorce was final and he started living with her SS11 was on medication all of sudden)
am I overracting about the banquet night?
Background...SD14 did not tell BM about sports banquet last weekend (her weekend) banquet is on her weekday visitation. H called & left a vm to the witch that SD needed to be there by 6pm and if she was going. BM left a vm (they never talk) stating SD14 didn't tell her and she was going and to drop him off at 530pm. I told him my opinion....BM kept saying to the attorneys during her deposition that she communicates with her son about all his sporting things...I told him to drop him off and we would go and if she didn't go that was her problem and SS14.
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