Im 23 i have been dating a man with 3 kids for almost a year. Things moved very quickly and i am pretty much with the children the whole week that we have them. I am at my boyfriends home from the time they get home until the time they go to bed. I pretty much play mommy at daddys house. He's an excellent father and tries so hard to make up the time he doesnt get to spend with them. The biomother doesnt seem to spend much quality time with them, she works until an hour before their bed time.