So, I need some advice/help.  DH had 5 kids (2 grown with 1 woman) (3 younger ones with the shedevil).  The oldest daughter loves to communicate with her siblings mom...causing so much drama.  DH defends her but that isn't the main issue.  Everytime the kids come over, they witness their dad and I fighting.  It is so much tension.  Them texting their mom stuff like little spies.  Their mom feed them shit about us...especially me.  Eldest daughter starts calling me the wedge because I have boundaries in my life with drama.  DH never had a great relationship with the younger 3.  I have put my