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Deciding to not have any BKids.
My DH and I decided before we got married that we didn't want any Bkids. He said it was because he didn't want to "start over" (SS was 10, now 13) and I never really felt that "motherly urge". But now I'm wondering if that is really the reason. At that point, I had already lived with DH and SS for 3 years, and my feelings haven't changed, still don't want Bkids, but I'm just thinking that maybe it's because of all the struggle I've had with SS. Has anyone else made this decision about Bkids because of the situation with Skids?
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SM's who live with their Skids 24-7 any advice?
I'm fairly new here, and I have been so very relieved to read so much about what everyone else is going through, and that I'm not alone. I've been with my DH since SS was 7. We got married when SS was 10, he's now 13. He lives in our home, always has, BM abandoned him @ age 3, but visited with him some, a lot less now that she has another daughter, and that her second marriage has failed and she's too busy going out to the bars to find a new sucker.
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Tired of BM giving MONEY to SS, but not paying her CS!
Christmas was the first time BM saw 13SS in 4 months, (didn't even want him for Thanksgiving), and she bought him quite a few things, and a cell phone (but didn't have it with her to give him). We told him he could not bring the cell home b/c he's been so irresponsible with ones he's had in the past, so he called her and told her he wanted the money instead (obviously he views her as a human ATM). So she lies to him four times saying she put a money order in the mail, then finally admits to him that she did no such thing and in order for him to get the money, he has to come see her.