I really need help and advice
We all really do have the same issues
its just the actual events that differ
the control by the stepchild lead to manipulation and lies in many instances
The TRUE problem is the Parent
If the BIo Parent doesnt lay down the law AND Stick to it the other partner has two choices
A) RUN FOR YOUR LIFE
Learn to answer correctly ONLY when asked
C) NOT get involved
D) Most Important to DISENGAGE