I truly have to start out by saying that I DO NOT regret having my girl and boy by this man. But if I had known then what i know now, there probably wouldnt have been a sweet baby girl and boy. I came into this picture in the middle of a crappy divorce, he easily got custody of both his boys, at that time 4 and 6 because his ex wouldnt take care of them. I have taken care of these boys for 9 years while their bio mom has been in and out of their lives. Basically whenever she's halfway straight.