DH mentioned that he would love to adopt daughter. She will be 17 years old this March. Bd father has not really been in her life. That talk or text every 3 months or so. She visits with her grandparent one a years maybe. So she is not every close to them. Bd was 8 when I met DH. He has been great with her. Lately BM has been telling skids that their father is spending more time with my daughter. So I have been seeing a lot of jealously from SD10. HELLO we are leaving in the same house! Hubby says he will wait till she is 18 so we don’t have to ask her father to give up his rights. Oh well who knows

Always I do fear that SD10 might not take it well. What if she starts to hating her daddy for this. I don’t know what to think. I love the idea but I don’t want it to cause problems. I am more than sure that BM will hate this if she were to find out and give dh hell...... skids are already brainwash.

Oh well this is something that was mentioned in conversation and not sure if it will happen (adoption) but it sure made me feel great.He loves meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.:)
What do you all think? Has anyone been through this?