I have read many of your stories about the BF or DH having personal (some very personal) conversations with the ex and exes doing all they can to get the BF or DH back. Do you all ever wonder if maybe he may possibly go back? The reason I ask is because my BF had many too personal for my taste conversations with his ex. Every time we had the slightest disagreement he was on the phone to her about it, telling her what happened and asking what he should do. These phone calls and IM messages were all "behind my back" while he was at work.