I have 3 BS, my partner & I have been together for 4yrs, but he & my eldest BS9 are always fighting, anything my bs does is wrong (according to partner) to make things worse I organized for SD9 to live with us full time(SD BM didn't want her) & everything is worse! She always gets my BS into trouble for no reason, I can't connect with her & dread the oncoming years! I love my partner but it gets all to much! Will the fighting ever end?????