How is it that BM can be so crazy and bitter that she would try to convence herself that FH has no custody of SD3? In fact, FH has shared both physical and legal custody yet she just says that SD visits. Why is it so hard for her to admit that she is not this perfect mom? I swear this women is crazy! So new drama now lol of course! Now she is saying that FH and I tell SD bad things about her and he boy friend. She believes that because SD hates living with them. She never wants to see her mom, she even tells the day care lady to take her to Daddy. Even though she spends more time with FH than BM. I feel bad that SD is only 3 and has already figured out BM is more interested in her personal life than her daughter. She won't pay to send her to preschool, she constantly questions FH about how he has money. I am so tempted to tell her we have money because we don't spend 200 on cigerettes a week. But I hold it back and instead act civil. All the while she acts as if FH and I are the rude ones. I know she only does these things because she is unhappy, but it bothers me! I just wish that she would grow a brain. All she does is lie and complain, it would kill her to go a day without doing either. Honestly I am begining to find it all funny, but I feel like I have no place to talk about it except for this site! Thank God for this site or else I would go crazy! I am sorry for the random vent, but she is so weird and crazy lately that there is so much to talk about. She has even made SD call her new boyfriend Daddy J just because my SD started calling me Momma. She did it to annoy FH, but the joke is on her because he doesn't mind. SD is such a little Daddy's girl that he is not worried. It is just horrible that an adult would make a child do that to hurt the other parent. I am so tired of all the childish junk she does. At least I can see the humor, I just wish that SD wasn't the one suffering.