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SS is making my life a living hell

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Submitted by Yummy mummy on Wed, 06/11/2025 - 2:43am

BM decided she is overwhelmed caring for SS and SS aged 11 now, must move in with SO. BM took SO to children's court and it was decided with social workers that SS must move in with him, although it is not made an order of the court. SO agreed without consulting me, when I found out, I was deeply hurt because I knew what would be in store for me, based on past experiences with SS when he used to visit. We are engaged to be married, so from time to time, we stay together because his place is closer to my work place.

Baby mama drama

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Submitted by Yummy mummy on Sat, 01/20/2024 - 9:57am

So BM just sent me an sms telling me "you guys can you please buy SS22 a cellphone, he has not had a cellphone for 3 months. I will later ask you to help him with driver's licence. If you don't do it, i will assist him to apply for maintenance at court". This is after sye emailed SO about this cellphone  & SS22 had already asked SO to get him a cellphone, i don't know what was the conclusion. 

Frustrated by SS

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Submitted by Yummy mummy on Thu, 01/18/2024 - 1:05pm

My partner has 2 sons with his ex, aged 9 & 22. 

For now I will talk about younger SS who is 9 turning 10 next month. 

The younger SS is frustrating to an extent i don't want him to visit anymore. Whenever he has to visit i wish i can just go away until he returns to his mom.